Making a conscious decision to be a better version of myself as well as being in a better place and space than I was last year and years ago has part of my goals for this year. Well, today’s post is going to be a little bit personal than the previous ones, but I felt to share this with you.

A mentor of mine once said, maturity has nothing to do with age; it is a mindset. It is self-control; it is the discipline; it is growing up. These words have been stuck in my head for so long now.

So this is it, I realized I had to change a lot about me to attract the energy and association I desire. For more than two years, particularly this year, I genuinely worked on the way I carry myself, react to things and the people I associate with. Sometimes, I look back at the girl I was four or five years ago, and I am like Aaah! Mandy, you have come a long way. LOL!

There were so many things I wanted to work on, things I couldn’t share with people, my family or my friends. Things I knew for a fact needed to get fixed, for example, some of my not so good characters and behaviours. Even more, I have learned to manage issues better than before, and this happened rapidly over the last few months. It was a necessity for me as long as I want the best for myself.

Nonetheless, I am still working on being less crazy, although my mom doesn’t think that would ever change lol!, but I believe I will get there one day probably sooner than she expects.

The reason I have decided to share this with you today is to encourage someone who might need this. You might not be the best version of yourself right now; I haven’t gotten there either. You might have a couple of things you need to work on. Trust me, we all have flaws. However, the important thing is you have recognized and realized that you need to get it right. Just put in the effort and start making changes, you will get there.

Like I always say, I am a work in progress, and we all are. I don’t think I have gotten to where I want to be yet, but I am excited for the woman I am becoming. I am thrilled about where this is heading, and I don’t take this for granted. I am so happy to embrace a more responsible and coordinated version of myself. You should too. I am delighted I made the conscious decision to do better.

I know today’s blog post is a little more personal than usual, but I am happy I can share this with you.

Thanks for reading, and have a fantastic weekend!

2 thoughts on “I realized I needed to fix things”

  1. Definitely enjoyed reading this post. The important thing is putting the effort to becoming a better person. No need to wait till 2020, it could start now by taking it one step at a time.

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